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Co-Living in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico
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OUR STORY
Hacienda ELM | A Boutique Women’s Co-Living in San Miguel de Allende
Hacienda ELM is a thoughtfully curated, women-only co-living community designed for connection, ease, and a beautiful place to land—whether for a season or a fresh start.
Set in a peaceful countryside setting just outside San Miguel, our hacienda offers a safe, supportive environment for like-minded women. Enjoy beautifully decorated private suites with en-suite bathrooms, surrounded by nature—fruit trees, birdsong, walking paths, and open skies.
This is intentional, women-centered living—where independence and community come together.
Designed for Your Next Chapter
Hacienda ELM is perfect for women who are:
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Exploring life in San Miguel
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Staying for a month—or a few
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Curious about co-living and downsizing their life
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Seeking connection within a safe, welcoming sisterhood
Stay 30+ days with flexible options to match your rhythm.
Come to explore… many women choose to stay because it feels like home.
MEET THE FOUNDER
Michelle Wedderburn is the founder of Casa ELM Boutique Guesthouse and Hacienda ELM CoLiving Community, two intentional communities rooted in connection. A long-time resident of San Miguel de Allende, Michelle has spent years supporting individuals and families with their transition to a life in Mexico — including relocation and the search for community abroad. Hacienda ELM is an extension of her work.
Hacienda ELM is a boutique, WOMEN-ONLY Co-Living community set in a peaceful countryside just outside San Miguel de Allende. Surrounded by fruit trees, birdsong, and open skies, it offers a slower, more connected way of living.
Created as a safe, supportive space for like-minded women, Hacienda ELM is a place to land, reset, and feel at home—whether you're visiting or staying longer. Private suites and shared spaces make it easy to enjoy both independence and community.
For women who value connection, culture, and ease—this is intentional living, beautifully done.
With gratitude,
Michelle Wedderburn
HACIENDA ELM
Where Community Feels Like Coming Home
Purpose
At Hacienda ELM, the next chapter feels lighter, not smaller. Our boutique co-living community, only for women, offers privacy, culture, and meaningful connection for independent adults — where you maintain autonomy while living supported by environment, community, and intentional shared experiences.
Who Hacienda ELM Is For?
Hacienda ELM is for women, seeking community, culture, and ease into life in Mexico. Tourists and Mexican residents welcome. Ideal for seasonal or full-time living in San Miguel de Allende, our co-living model offers privacy, connection, and a simpler, more intentional lifestyle.
A Soft Landing in San Miguel
At Hacienda ELM, coliving is a great way to experience a soft landing in Mexico and where friendships form naturally, life in San Miguel is meant to be experienced, and shared activities, nature, and connection create a supportive place to feel at home.
OUR SUITES
Authentic Accommodations
The Hacienda Experience
Welcome to a new chapter of life—one that embraces quality, connection, and cultural richness. Whether you're ready to take a sabbatical, retire or just explore Mexico and living life abroad, Hacienda ELM was created to promote community, and friendships in a vibrant, supportive environment. San Miguel de Allende offers the perfect blend of independence and lifestyle interests for like-minded women.
Elevated Dining Experience – Shared meals in a
warm, community-focused atmosphere
Private Cinema Room – Enjoy movie nights and timeless classics in a cozy theater lounge
Tranquil Lounge Spaces – Ideal for reading, conversation, or quiet reflection
Swimming Pool – Gentle exercise and relaxation in a serene, hacienda setting
Deluxe King Suites
Designed with comfort and elegance in mind, the King Deluxe Suite at Hacienda ELM offers a serene retreat for residents 50+. This spacious room features a plush king bed, abundant natural light, and a cozy nook perfect for reading, writing, or creative expression. Ample storage ensures ease and organization, while the full private bathroom provides convenience and privacy. Enjoy tranquil views of the hacienda’s lush courtyard—your peaceful window to nature and community living.
Two Deluxe King Suites with Private Full Bathrooms
Deluxe King Suite 1 with Courtyard View, Extra Storage, and Nook
Deluxe King Suite 2: Poolside Views for Ultimate Relaxation
Expansive Outdoor Lounging Under Trees, Covered Pool Area, and More
Signature Queen Suites
Our Signature Queen Suites at Hacienda ELM are thoughtfully designed for comfort, independence, and a sense of home. Tailored for residents 50+, this inviting space features a cozy queen bed, generous storage, and a calming ambiance ideal for rest and reflection. Each suite includes a private full bathroom and charming details that make it uniquely yours. With windows featuring views of fruit trees
Four Private Queen Suites with Full Bathrooms
Spacious Wardrobes and Dressers in All Suites
Orchard Views from all Queen Suites
Cozy, Comfortable Beds for a Restful Sleep
AMENITIES
Rustic Elegance Amenities
Lifestyle Services
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Daily Light Breakfast, Coffee, Tea & Fresh Juice
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Housekeeping & Laundry Service
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Wellness & Fitness at your own pace
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Lifestyle Concierge Services:
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Social and Recreational Activities
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Educational Workshops - Available
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Conversational Spanish Workshops - Available
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Relocation Package - Available
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Quarterly Destination Trip - Available
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Reading Area & Book Exchange
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...and more.
Wellness & Relaxation
Well-being is woven into daily life at Hacienda ELM. Each morning can begin with a peaceful walk along our private nature trail, offering quiet moments to center yourself. Take a refreshing dip in the pool for gentle movement, or simply relax by the water and soak in the calm.
For deeper relaxation, our on-site massage services are available to your personal needs, helping to ease tension and restore balance. Fresh, locally inspired meals, inviting spaces to unwind, and thoughtful daily rhythms create an environment where you can breathe easier and feel more connected.
At Hacienda ELM, wellness isn’t something you schedule—it’s naturally part of each day, supporting your body, mind, and spirit so you feel balanced, relaxed, and truly at home.
A Pool For Exercise & Relaxation
Our beautiful outdoor pool offers the perfect balance of wellness and leisure. Start your day with a refreshing morning swim or stretch out poolside with a good book or simply bask in the warmth of the sun, letting the quiet surroundings ease your mind.
Whether you’re seeking an energizing workout or a peaceful place to unwind, the pool area is thoughtfully designed to support your well-being—inviting you to move at your own pace and savor each moment of calm and connection.
Fitness & Entertainment
Stay active with our on-site fitness trail, plus yoga and meditation spaces designed for movement and mindfulness. For connection and fun, enjoy movie nights in our private cinema and the warmth of sisterhood through both planned gatherings and spontaneous shared meals—bringing joy, laughter, and meaningful connection into everyday life.
The Power of Co-Living
Co-living for women is about choosing connection, ease, and shared support as a way of life. Whether you’re in transition or simply craving a softer way of living, it offers the best of both worlds—your independence, with a circle of women around you.
Daily life feels lighter here, with shared responsibilities, natural connection, and support that’s present but never intrusive. You have space for yourself, along with companionship, safety, and a true sense of belonging.
At Hacienda ELM, this is all nestled in a peaceful country setting—where life slows down, nature grounds you, and space is made for rest, reflection, and genuine connection.
Intentional living with other women nurtures well-being, eases isolation, and creates a foundation for living with stability, purpose, and ease—together, yet always on your own terms.